ual Orientation Discovery through the Sims 2?

I think while ual orientation and desires are often things you are born with, it is definately possible they can also be learned. It is not uncommon for people to have a certain fantasy growing up and for something to happen in their life to change that fantasy. It certainly sounds like you love your husband and if you are both committed to being in an exclusive relationship than maybe your fantasies should remain that. Maybe if he is open they can somehow be worked into your marriage in a way that suits you both. You don't necessarily need to label yourself , straight, , or whatever if you don't want to... just be yourself. Your desires are normal but make sure you act upon them responsibly and openly.